My lifestyle isn't yours to question. You don't know, nor do you need to know why I'm childless. What if I had just gone through a miscarriage? What if I found out I'm infertile? What if I am not healthy enough to reproduce on my own? What if my relationship isn't in a good place? What if my mental or physical health isn't copacetic? What if I'm not in a financially stable position to start a family? I bet you'd feel pretty crappy if I gave you any one of those responses to your question about my family planning.
I'm 28 years old and when people ask me if/when I'm having kids I feel like I need to drop everything I'm doing personally and professionally and pop out a kid. And I just don't want to right now! I've only been married for 2 years and I'm really, really enjoying this time with my husband and our cats. We'll have children one day, hopefully. But until I decide to share a pregnancy or even the thought of starting a family, kindly and respectfully back off.